I should preface by letting you know that I am an energy worker. I have studied the lifeforce of humans and animals and have discovered that this energy affects us in MANY ways. It can go out of balance, causing sickness, loss of mental clarity, even extreme emotional distress.
I have heard it said that we only have so much energy to play with in the course of our lifetime and how we spend that energy with other people is actually very important.
My ex girl friend recently said something similar. (We still occasionally compare notes regarding our paths) She believes that we are all allotted so much of our own spiritual energy, and that each time we share that energy with another human being ....that a portion of this energy, or our own spirit is used. Traded. Our lifeforce is diminished. She believes that only when we take responsibility for our spending that energy in a connection between a man and a woman, and do so with an eye looking for God’s approval can we really invite the Divine into our hearts, let alone expect the Divine to nourish us with his/her love/energy in any other partnering.
Human beings all have a built in instinctual drive to collect lifeforce energy and safeguard their own. Good parings of healthy people enhance and actually increase this lifeforce energy, and bad couplings or coupling with someone whose energy is diminished, or unbalanced can cause injury to both people.
When a relationship is ongoing, each person is feeding their lover with their energy. The give and take of this lifeforce is part of the invisible connection between people who are in love. This happens between close friends, lovers and family. God enters into equal partnerships.
This is one of the reasons that “closure” is so important in a broken relationship. If there isn’t any closure, then the energy connections between the two people are violently ripped apart. This causes both parties to “bleed” energy for an extended period of time until they are able to heal from wound. Both people in the relationship are injured regardless of who initiated the breakup. This “bleeding” of lifeforce energy is most easily witnessed as lethargy, depression, or extended grief. It can also cause a person to seek connection elsewhere to “plug” the wound......we call this “being on the rebound”. The reason it doesn’t work is that the new energy from the rebound lover isn’t the same harmonic as the energy that the person suffering from an energy wound is requiring.
Contrary to my ex’s beliefs, I believe that it isn’t about running OUT of spiritual energy, so much as it is about each partnering being a sharing of energy. I am not certain I believe that this has to be between a man and a woman either. Since I believe that the experience of being human is really only that of a spiritual being being incarnated, the sexual aspects of a spiritual union have little to do with the exchange of lifeforce energy in my book. (who knows, I COULD be wrong, but.....I doubt it). God is about LOVE. God is Not about........LOVE with conditions.
I believe that each time you are intimate with a person you are literally GIVING them a part of yourself. This is why people sometimes have “fatal attraction”. This would be a condition where a person has invested TOO MUCH energy in a person who is going to leave that union and are taking that energy away, that in their sickness or being out of balance they wind up taking too much energy and not giving enough back to the other person to create balance.....much to the disadvantage of the person who is left bleeding energy from the separation. I do believe that an ex partner can RELEASE the energy you have given them back to you, but not without a conscious act. Over time, (and partners) I believe that you can trade away a great deal of your Divinely given lifeforce. I believe that there are ways to replenish this energy, but once again, it isn’t something that happens by itself.
So. When it comes down to it. There isn’t any such thing as a “hookup” or any kind of intimate bonding between people that doesn’t come at some degree of personal expense. It’s important to understand though, that this doesn’t mean you cannot have multiple partners.....it just means that you should REALLY...........LOVE them, and they should LOVE you back. The exchange of Love will heal us all. The taking of love without reciprocation will injure us.
I could go on forever about this topic, so I’ll stop here. Feel free to comment on the subject, and let me know what you think.
Love
Chiron’
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